On Tuesday, March 25, veteran Nollywood actor Jide Kosoko addressed rumors surrounding his personal life, clarifying that he never had four wives at the same time.
The actor explained that while he had been married to two women, he lost them and later married two more.
Kosoko opened up during a recent appearance on The Honest Bunch podcast, where he discussed his experiences with polygamy. He emphasized that he considers himself “lucky” because his wives and children are understanding of his situation.
However, the actor was quick to state that he is not advocating for polygamy, as he believes not everyone would be as fortunate as he has been in his personal relationships.
Kosoko said, “I didn’t have four wives at the same time o! Don’t get it wrong because people are not getting it. I had two, I lost them. I married another two.”
He went on to discuss the challenges of polygamy, noting, “I am not supporting polygamy. Not everybody can be this lucky. Do you know that in some polygamous homes, you have mothers with different children, and your own daughter’s or child’s birthday is tomorrow? Fortunately, we celebrated it elaborately. But when it comes to another child’s birthday, and I am not buoyant enough, my children and their mothers understand that with me.”
Kosoko highlighted the importance of love and understanding in his family dynamics, saying, “If it’s your birthday and I have money, I will do it. If your own comes when I don’t have money, that’s your fate. It’s a matter of luck with me. But you must have shown them that you love them all. You must have given them that love in other ways, so when it’s not coming at that material time, they will easily understand.”
He added that his children are supportive when financial challenges arise, noting, “Another one will tell me, ‘Daddy, anytime you get money, you still need to buy me something for my birthday.’ I will say, ‘By God’s grace, remind me.’ And when the money comes and they remind me, I give them what they ought to have gotten for their birthday.”
However, Kosoko made it clear that fairness in his home doesn’t mean automatic equality, stating, “But don’t tell me that because I bought something for your co-wife’s son, I must also buy for your son. If you do so, you lose it. I won’t buy. That’s not the way I operate.”
The actor’s candidness has sparked conversation about the complexities of polygamous family structures, with many appreciating his perspective on balancing love, luck, and financial realities.
