Music star reflects on being single at the age of 39
The “Kukere” crooner and Nigerian music sensation, Iyanya Onoyom Mbuk, has opened up about the personal sacrifices he has made for his career.
In a candid interview on Friday, January 30, 2026, the singer revealed that his status as a celebrity has significantly complicated his love life. At 39 years old, Iyanya admitted that while he has achieved “National” fame and success, finding a genuine partner who sees beyond the stardom remains a daunting challenge.
Iyanya noted that most people who approach him often have a preconceived notion of who he is based on his public persona and hit records. He expressed frustration that the “glitz and glamour” often act as a barrier to building a deep, authentic connection with a woman. This “Renewed Hope” for a stable family life has been delayed as he navigates the complexities of trust in an industry where motives are frequently questioned.
The singer, who has been linked to several high-profile relationships in the past, emphasized that he is currently focusing on his “mental health” and personal growth. He shared that the pressure to maintain a certain image often leaves little room for the vulnerability required in a serious relationship. For Iyanya, the transition from a young star to a veteran in the game has brought a new perspective on what truly matters beyond the charts.
Trust issues and the pressure of public scrutiny
One of the primary hurdles cited by the musician is the difficulty of discerning between someone who loves him and someone who loves his “celebrity” status. He admitted that the fear of being used for “clout” has made him more guarded and selective in his social interactions. The constant gaze of the “National” media also adds an extra layer of stress, as any budding romance is immediately subjected to intense public commentary and rumors.
Iyanya also touched on the toll that a busy touring schedule takes on long-term commitments. The demand to be present in different cities and countries often leads to a “clog in the wheel” for consistent communication and bonding. He urged young artists coming up in the industry to prioritize their personal lives alongside their careers to avoid the loneliness that can accompany the heights of fame.
Moving forward with a focus on peace and celibacy
In a surprising turn, the artist also mentioned his ongoing struggle with maintaining a life of celibacy as he searches for a meaningful partner. He described this period as a “National” journey of self-discovery where he is learning to be content with his own company. Iyanya believes that by staying focused and avoiding “distractions,” he will eventually attract a partner who aligns with his values and long-term goals.
Despite the challenges, the “Joy-Giver” of the music industry remains optimistic about the future. He has recently been back in the studio, working on projects that he says will reflect his current state of mind and emotional maturity. His fans continue to support his journey, both as an artist and as a man seeking fulfillment beyond the bright lights of the stage.
As January 2026 concludes, Iyanya’s story serves as a poignant reminder that fame does not always equate to happiness in one’s personal life. The singer’s vulnerability has sparked a conversation about the emotional health of African male celebrities and the societal expectations placed upon them. Whether he finds love this year or continues his solo journey, Iyanya remains a central figure in the Nigerian cultural narrative.
