Rapper shares views on relationships and intimacy
Popular Nigerian rapper Emeka Akumefule, better known by his stage name Blaqbonez, has sparked conversations online after revealing that he wouldn’t mind being in an open marriage. The artiste made the statement during a recent appearance on the In My Opinion podcast, where he shared his personal perspective on marriage, intimacy, and modern relationships.
Blaqbonez, who is known for his bold opinions and creative expression, argued that many married couples experience a decline in sexual intimacy over time. According to him, such situations are normal and can be managed in a way that doesn’t undermine the emotional bond between partners.
“I don’t mind an open marriage”
Speaking on the podcast, the rapper explained that he is comfortable with the idea of his future spouse being intimate with someone else, provided the emotional core of the marriage remains intact.
“I don’t mind having an open marriage,” he said. “Most married couples, you don’t keep having the same amount of sex you were having at the beginning. It will reduce.”
He elaborated that while he might be away hustling, touring, and working on his career, he understands that his partner might seek physical intimacy elsewhere. For him, this wouldn’t necessarily threaten the relationship as long as both partners are committed to each other emotionally.
“If somebody is satisfying her sexually while I’m hustling, touring, I’m not available to be getting intimate with her all the time. That is okay. There’s more to marriage than sex. I don’t mind that you’re sleeping with someone else provided you’re dedicated to me,” he added.
Emotional connection over physical exclusivity
Blaqbonez emphasized that a relationship is built on more than just sexual exclusivity. He explained that he believes his emotional bond with his partner would be strong enough to withstand any physical engagement outside the marriage.
“It will be difficult for a random person to just come and match up with what I have put in there,” he said. “Nobody is just going to get her sexually and also mentally addicted to them. They probably can’t make her laugh the way I do.”
According to the rapper, his unique connection with his partner would make it hard for any third party to replace him emotionally or mentally.
A different view on marital structure
In a more unconventional statement, Blaqbonez also mentioned that if he ever gets married, he would prefer living arrangements that maintain a sense of personal space.
“If I’m even going to get married, I need two rooms. Me and my wife will only meet when we want to have intimacy,” he said.
The rapper’s comments reflect his non-traditional views on marriage, challenging long-held cultural expectations about monogamy and spousal roles in Nigeria.
Mixed reactions from the public
As expected, Blaqbonez’s remarks have generated widespread reactions on social media. While some people applauded his honesty and unconventional approach to marriage, others strongly disagreed, citing cultural and moral values that prioritize monogamy and exclusivity in romantic partnerships.
Relationship experts often note that discussions around open marriages remain highly controversial, especially in more conservative societies. Some argue that such arrangements can work for couples who set clear boundaries and maintain open communication, while others believe they can undermine trust and stability.
Blaqbonez’s history of bold statements
This is not the first time Blaqbonez has shared unconventional views on relationships. Over the years, he has often used interviews and social media platforms to challenge traditional norms surrounding dating, love, and commitment.
The rapper, who rose to prominence with his unique style and humorous takes on modern youth culture, has cultivated a reputation for being outspoken and unapologetic about his beliefs.
Conclusion
Blaqbonez’s recent comments add to the ongoing conversation about changing attitudes toward marriage and intimacy, particularly among younger generations. While his perspective may not align with mainstream values, it reflects the diversity of opinions emerging in modern relationship dynamics.
Whether accepted or rejected by the public, his statements underscore the evolving ways individuals define commitment, personal space, and partnership in today’s world.
